Aug
2
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Gemma asked:
My boyfriend dumped me yesterday. We weren’t together for long. He told me that his grandad was critically ill with cancer so he found it hard to deal with a relationship at the moment but he still really really likes me and doesn’t want to let me down. He also said that it was awkward because he works at my local windsurfing club and when i go down there (which isn’t often) he isn’t allowed to have any physical contact or spend any more time with me than any other club member.He said that he wants to stay close friends for the time being but I really really love him and was in tears when he told me it was over. i find him staring at me now that its over evry now and again with a disapointed smile.
The same thing happened with my grandad, who died of cancer when i was very young so i know how he is feeling.
I just really want him back and i know alot of you will think i should just get on with it, but he was the most decent guy, and he made me feel the happiest i have been in a long time. I really want him back, but i dont want him to feel pressured and i want to support and be there for him like a friend aswell.
I cant sleep, i dont feel like eating and i feel totally incomplete.
What shoould i do, to support him, and let him know how i still feel without him being freaked out and not want me back. He made me so happy. I just dont know what to do.
My boyfriend dumped me yesterday. We weren’t together for long. He told me that his grandad was critically ill with cancer so he found it hard to deal with a relationship at the moment but he still really really likes me and doesn’t want to let me down. He also said that it was awkward because he works at my local windsurfing club and when i go down there (which isn’t often) he isn’t allowed to have any physical contact or spend any more time with me than any other club member.He said that he wants to stay close friends for the time being but I really really love him and was in tears when he told me it was over. i find him staring at me now that its over evry now and again with a disapointed smile.
The same thing happened with my grandad, who died of cancer when i was very young so i know how he is feeling.
I just really want him back and i know alot of you will think i should just get on with it, but he was the most decent guy, and he made me feel the happiest i have been in a long time. I really want him back, but i dont want him to feel pressured and i want to support and be there for him like a friend aswell.
I cant sleep, i dont feel like eating and i feel totally incomplete.
What shoould i do, to support him, and let him know how i still feel without him being freaked out and not want me back. He made me so happy. I just dont know what to do.
Thank you in advance.
tell him quickly! don’t be shy..
or you’ll late n fed up