is there a soulmate 4 everyone? asked:


im 16, 6′0 my BMI is 23.4 (17.5-25 being healthy) i would rate myself 7/10. im intelligent sporty my hobbies are sailing skiing and windsurfing im a kind and caring person, im funny, have a good dress sense, always looking at the positives, confident and up for a laugh. but i havent found anyone who would like to be in a relationship with me. im not the most popular guy in school but the more popular guys hav girls falling all over them but why the either do it for the respect or they just cheat on them. so even when the girls find out do they forgive them all the time if i found some1 i would spend loads of time with her and be caring. i have no probs talking to girls at all but i just havent found any1 wanting a relationship with me that i want to be in to. i have had girls ask me bfor but it didnt feel right so i am not too desperste but im verging on the edgde! plz help any advice would b great

Williaml2012 asked:


I have friends that have have had a few girlfriends over the last couple of years when I haven’t. I find that I can talk to girls that are in pub/clubs or working in shops but with any I seem to like, I never seem to have the courage to ask them out. Whilst I don’t want to seem desperate, I don’t want to be single all my life.

About me, I’m an easy going and helpful person, and I’m the sort of guy that despite living through a transitional period with my career, is willing to try out things I’ve never done before such as windsurfing and canoeing, and lastly I have ginger hair.

Out there, you don’t see many girls with blond or dark hair going out with guys with ginger hair. Also, I don’t see eye to eye with my mother and I think if a girl finds that out about me, she’d run a mile from me as if I’m a nasty person when I’m not or try not to be.

Being 28, I have girlfriends as often as Everton beat Man United. How can I work on overcoming my lack of confidence?
No purplevoodoo, I like Everton and in that respect, I’m disappointed in the fact they have a poor record against Man U as they should be doing better against them.

is there a soulmate 4 everyone? asked:


im 14, 5′9 my BMI is 23.4 (17.5-25 being healthy) i would rate myself 7/10. im intelligent sporty my hobbies are sailing skiing and windsurfing im a kind and caring person always looking at the positives, confident and up for a laugh. but i havent found anyone who would like to be in a relationship with me. im not the most popular guy in school but the more popular guys hav girls falling all over them but why the either do it for the respect or they just cheat on them. so even when the girls find out do they forgive them all the time if i found some1 i would spend loads of time with her and be caring. i have no probs talking to girls at all but i just havent found any1 wanting a relationship with me that i want to be in to. i have had girls ask me bfor but it didnt feel right so i am not too desperste but im verging on the edgde! plz help any advice would b great

is there a soulmate 4 everyone? asked:


im 14, 5′9 my BMI is 23.4 (17.5-25 being healthy) i would rate myself 7/10. im intelligent sporty my hobbies are sailing skiing and windsurfing im a kind and caring person always looking at the positives, confident and up for a laugh. but i havent found anyone who would like to be in a relationship with me. im not the most popular guy in school btu the more popular guys hav girls falling all over them but why the either do it for the respect or they just cheat on them. so even when the girls find out do they forgive them all the time if i found some1 i would spend loads of time with her and be caring. i have no probs talking to girls at all but i just havent found any1 wanting a relationship with me that i want to be in to. i have had girls ask me bfor but it didnt feel right so i am not too desperste but im verging on the edgde! plz help any advice would b great

frenchie310 asked:


obviously girls have different tastes, but i guess im here to ask for your opinions because you can be honest because you dont know me!
Anyway, i have been told that im attractive, but i think i know that im not really that good looking. i am different though, in a weird way i think - not bad weird though, definitely more good weird… if that makes sense! my appearance is sort of, jeans bright t-shirts, zip-up hoodies, and i have naturally curly aubern (spelt wrong probably) hair which is sun lightened to blond and currently it is thin (1cm average) dreadlocks.
i have a very “surfer dude” look i suppose, probably because i am one, although at the minute uni is taking up a shed load of time so im not really getting the chance to go windsurfing or surfing and its pretty annoying. why did i choose an engineering degree?!?!

so there i am, hopefully you get an idea of the type of guy i am. now the girl i like, is basically a polar opposite!
she is pretty well-off i think, goes for walks in the country, dresses expensively and is always well made up, has lovely skin and smells v nice too. she is stunning, a mega catch. untouchable? she’s quite shy, and maybe bored of the guys who think they can have her, like the rugby jocks… at least thats what im hoping ha. If i could be her conscience i would definitely tell her that i would be good fun, and introduce her to some cool sports and beaches and have fun holidays…

she is just so perfect, apart from she’s shy and quiet so i know she is a good person, and i find her really intruiging. i dont know her very well, though she has messaged me on facebook about my antics at a halloween party (i introduced her to her own housemate and told her she was going to make me tea and pizza. she didnt of course!) she found it quite funny and apparently loved the attention

is she just a really nice girl and im drawing the wrong conclusion from her messaging me, or is she maybe showing some interest? its obvious to her that im interested…. i think.

dont really know why im here asking you lovely lot, im just tired of asking myself this question! i do too much thinking… guess i dont really know where i fit in to society or the kinds of people that want to be with someone like me.

lets just have a chat anyway, now that youve read all the way to the end of this message, haha bravo! thanks for your time….

is there a soulmate 4 everyone? asked:


im 14, 5′9 my BMI is 23.4 (17.5-25 being healthy) i would rate myself 7/10. im intelligent sporty my hobbies are sailing skiing and windsurfing im a kind and caring person always looking at the positives, confident and up for a laugh. but i havent found anyone who would like to be in a relationship with me. im not the most popular guy in school btu the more popular guys hav girls falling all over them but why the either do it for the respect or they just cheat on them. so even when the girls find out do they forgive them all the time if i found some1 i would spend loads of time with her and be caring. i have no probs talking to girls at all but i just havent found any1 wanting a relationship with me that i want to be in to. i have had girls ask me bfor but it didnt feel right so i am not too desperste but im verging on the edgde! plz help any advice would b great